Could it be that woke white men are more inclined to appreciate darker-skinned women than black men? With the onslaught of societal pressure to conform to only one version of beauty perhaps black men, with their vun pressure, are averse to women who represent beauty that is continually discredited.
Realistically, an answer to this question is only ever going to be anecdotal.
How can one possibly answer whether black men are more or less appreciative of black women, without interviewing thousands of black men and women? What I do know is that, as black women, we have to convince ourselves that we are beautiful 10 times before we even leave the house.
We are constantly in a pattern of uplifting ourselves, boosting ourselves, complimenting ourselves and it can become exhausting. Black women with darker skin and kinky hair combat feelings of inadequacy from society and from within our own communities, due to the pervasiveness of colourism. Someone who appreciates you and is fn awe of your beauty and looks at you as though you are a painting in the Louvre.
Of course, you could question fetishization and exotic othering, but it sometimes must be nice to feel as though you are the original black Mona Lisa.
The number of dating sites matching white men with black women seems unnerving to me. I recognize that people have a NNeed when it comes to looks, but Need a white gal for fun only seek a person from one race amidst a history of a structural power division should not be exempt from arguments of internalized racism and self-hate.
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When preference is coloured with years of viewing black men and women as inferior and not worthy of attraction let alone love, it is difficult to prove that preference is simply preference and not awash with racist undertones. And so, when black women specifically seek out white men, it is similarly Need a white gal for fun to prove that it is solely a preference and not as a result of internalized racism and self-hate.
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To determine whether a love interest is a result of internalized racism would be near to impossible. How do you separate love from…love?
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However, in the search of wokebae, does he even need to be black? How boring. Why are all my favourite bloggers dating white men?
I concluded that it could only be a coincidence. There needs to be more room offline to discuss these matters as well. I spoke to Wanna about her viral thread and why this form of blackface is so insidious. You can read our chat below.
Wanna Thompson WT: I start a lot of important conversations on social media, and after viewing one tweet by [ yeahaboutella]I thought to myself: White women want the benefits of being Black without dealing with the responsibilities that come with it. They see the features that Black women are blessed to have, and they literally do anything to obtain fir. I want people to turn their actual attention to Black women and make an effort to connect with influencers and content creators who are producing amazing work.
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Give Black women their Needd Home News Not Okay The writer behind the viral thread on white influencers pretending to be Black tells us why this kind of racism is so insidious.
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